Airlie Beach
This morning we awoke early again and were surprised by the strong winds that greeted us as we opened the balcony door. A quick check of our weather app confirmed high wind warnings for the area in effect all day.
We ate a pleasant breakfast in the dining room and then wandered the boat as we awaited our turn to board a tender to take us ashore.
Unsurprisingly, an announcement was made that the life boats ordinarily used to tender passengers were unfit for the task today due to the winds. Fortunately, water taxis had also been secured to transport passengers to Airlie Beach, so we were able to take these larger catamarans.
We were among the first to board the boat ashore, and sat for quite awhile as they waited for it to fill. Eventually it did become full, and just before departure, a family including a tall boy who had special needs came up the stairs looking for a place to sit. Bryan motioned them to take our places and the mother appeared quite relieved and thanked us repeatedly.
The boy had his arms up by his ears and appeared to be processing the sensory experience of the wind and the boat differently than those around him. His mother spoke to soothe him, and encouraged his father to wrap his arm around him and apply some pressure. A moment or two later, Bryan encouraged me to approach the mother and tell her what I do, since I have always been curious about how neurodivergent individuals face the challenges of traveling.
I gathered my courage and stepped up to the mother. “How old is your son?” I asked. She gestured in question past her nuerotypical son standing next to her to the boy sitting beside his father where I had been sitting a few moments before. I nodded, confirming that was the son I was interested in. “Fifteen.” she answered. I asked a few questions about how often he travels and what he enjoys, and went on to explain that I work with children on the autism spectrum and have always been curious how people overcome the challenges of travel. I also mentioned having a brother with special needs and how we did not travel much with him growing up because of how challenging it can be.
She and her son brightened and seemed really to enjoy talking to me about how their family helps him to travel. I encouraged them, telling them how happy it made me to see him out getting to have these experiences. It was a really meaningful exchange and left all of us a bit better for having shared. It is such a privilege and a gift to work with the people I do. God has created me with this purpose in mind, and I truly delight in it.
I pray that Karen, Luke, and his father have a great cruise and that Joshua does too. That he would know how loved he is, and enjoy not only swimming, but even new experiences with his family this week.
I have often mentioned to Bryan that I would love to assist families in traveling with their loved ones who are on the autism spectrum. I think it would be so special to help families make those memories together. Maybe someday.
But today, Bryan and I wished this family well, and went ashore for a nice long walk along the water.
As always, the pictures are wonderful!! I enjoy all the details and color you add to your story. Bravo to you, Mer, for your insight and love you offered the family on the transfer boat. You shine in your element. The food looks as good as on our Alaskan cruises 😊
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